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Dealing with difficult people
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Dealing with difficult people
Dealing with difficult people
First you should know that Stronger Students got 3,000 pageviews per month so far, and that it contains 200 articles that are for self-understanding and personal skills, and that ranked number one for some of it's pages.
How did you behave last time a difficult person tried to hurt you? was it hard for you to breath? Did you felt that he/she is an enemy? Didn't you imagine that such act may issued from him/her? Do you feel that a revenge should be done? Or did you smile for such little personality? Do you think that he/she is such a complex person? Are you fed up from such people? or is it a new experience? Either or, listen closely to such a negative story...
Oliver once met a girl -Nilkoi- on Facebook through her blog that talks about how to be smart, he once read from her that internet could bring him happiness through writing and sharing his thoughts with others, so he took this way to see how much happy he can be, but in the middle of the way, he thought he will not continue, and thought that some screwed up minds played with his mind to be someone he didn't want putting in his mind that he will lose only effort nothing more nothing less than a few dollars, but he knew that all brave horses stumbles so he managed to think in a way that will lead him to success rather than jealousy and envy from her that will lead him to nothing but to negative thoughts.
Dealing with difficult people
Oliver starts writing against Nilkoi and as she knew that a known enemy is better than disguised friend she smiled in herself knowing that there will be a challenge between him and her unless there is a respectful union between them to make their business even stronger and much helpful and she was ready unless he initiate the ignition by starting talking to her.
Oliver was jealous from Nilkoi felt inferior in a way that motivates him to write a smart article about her in his blog, so she may read it and respond to him in a good way.
Knowing this and already liking what Oliver went through, she simply opened his Facebook profile and write on his wall that she wants him to write about her in her blog.
How to deal with difficult people
- First eliminate negative people from your life OR have the guts to face them: Never think what did I do for you for all this, I know I am big enough to make you crazy but be more friendly, fast respond to their requests and never neglect them because as you can see it is harmful.
- Avoid discussing causes: Take actions either you become a good helpful friend or to avoid such persons which in this case it's not your style.
- Know exactly what do they want: don't just move along what they said that makes you more aware of yourself, know exactly what they want as they may become somewhere you didn't reach.
- Don't give up:An important thing to know, that you should always change not to be predicted.
- Use all your skills to keep different: not only by saying that you are different ,you have to step up small creatures by creating more attraction and appearance.
Last but not least dealing with difficult people requires from you to be more flexible and never say enough till you get what you want.
Wish you feel better now.
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