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How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn't Love you
Do you love someone who doesn't love you back? do you wish he loves you back? do you wish to stop loving him but it's hard on you? do you always remember him and he is always in your mind? is it real love or just that he is clinging in your mind all the time?
how to stop loving someone who doesn't love you
there are core psychological reasons behind loving someone who doesn't love you rather than deleting all his emails, SMSs and anything that remind you of him although these are practical points that i will mention after mentioning first some more important points.
this information i am providing is sensitive, it is a two edged weapon, that can be used properly and improperly; using it properly will make him loves you, but don't use it for revenge, for using people or for any misused purposes and that only comes by trusting the readers of strongerstudents.com, so keep up this trust.
- know the core reason behind your love :you may think "i love him without reasons" or you may think "i love him unconditionally", know that every action have it's reaction that is equal in force and opposite in direction, this is a fact, so your action for loving him have it's reaction that should be, him, loving you back, but No, that's not the real reason behind your love to him, the core reason behind your love to him, that he doesn't love you, that's how you were raised, having everything in hand easily, you just point on the thing you want then you have it, it's never been hard for you to have something or someone to love you, but knowing that he doesn't love you, that is the core reason behind why he is clinging in your mind and why you love him.
- you have never lost someone you love :having all who you love around you and never losing someone, makes losing someone difficult for you, i am not asking you to get used of losing people around you, but i am asking you to feel nature, and feel that things come and go, if you lost someone today it doesn't mean it's the end of the world and that i will keep thinking of him and wanting him all the time, wake up, you are much more stronger than this, you are a hero :)
- let him ask you to stop loving him :having physical reply from him that he doesn't love you makes not loving him easier, this may hurt you, and may make him cling more in your mind and to love him even more while he doesn't love you, after knowing the first two points you should know that your normal reaction for this action should be that you don't love him, as he asked you to stop loving him.
- delete every physical thing that makes you remember him :including emails, SMSs, recorded phone calls, pictures and images for him, this way thinking about him will decrease to the most.
- your normal reaction for someone who doesn't love you is not to love him : you like to love people who are hard for you to have, who neglect you and who are a source of power to you this is only because you have what you see when you were a child (what you see is what you get), this was how you were raised, i am not trying to convince you that you were raised in a wrong way, but once you know why you love someone who doesn't love you, you can solve this problem easily and you can stop loving him, change the core reason of loving this person and you will change your way you are attached to him.
- you don't know him :once he fall in love with you, you will start to neglect him, imagine him loving you back and you will stop loving him, why i am telling you this?, because you are imagining that he is fulfilling all what you need but that's not true, visualizing him all the time, makes you imagine things that aren't in him that fulfil all your needs which isn't true because simply he didn't give you the space to know him.
- but i can't stop loving him :stop visualizing him whenever you are listening to a romantic song, stop listening to romantic songs in this part of your life, and involve in activities, like doing your home works, going to the school GYM or even having a job.
- love someone who loves you :i know this may be hard for you, but this is normal, it is normal to love someone who love you
- don't blame yourself that he doesn't love you :it is nothing to do with you, he doesn't love you because simply you are not the one he is looking for, as his subconscious is programmed to love someone different that what you are, so don't blame yourself but still you have a chance.
- you still have a change by changing yourself :if you managed to know what he is looking for and changed yourself to what he loves, you still have a chance to attract his attention and to let him love you, but don't fool yourself and him by not being yourself just for the sake of his love, know the core reason behind why you want him to love you, don't build changing yourself on improper morals unless you really want to make a proper relationship with him that is built on trust and seriousness, that's why i wrote this built on the trust of the reader.
- listen to an outer voice : listen to what other girls think about this guy and what does he love and what he doesn't like and work on them, working on these points will increase your chance to have his attention and then his love.
At the end you should know that these points i mentioned in this article is a sort of secret that only you and stronger students reader know, so keep the secret to your close friends only not to know what you are thinking about.
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