Due to the highly importance of social success subject, it will be on two parts and this post is part one of it.
Socializing was always a big part of my thinking, I feel I like to socialize more than my friends, I like to let people who I know, know each other's as well, as I feel it will be more fun to have whom I love in one place. I was always a nice guy to everyone and don't like to offend or feel that anyone is unpleased or unhappy from me, I used to do everything that my peer ask me to do to always make them happy and satisfied from me. (See also How To Be Intelligent)
I always believed that treating people nice is something I cannot give in, because I do not like anyone to treat me in a bad manner or in a way that I don't like. This belief even made me give in some of my rights and let some people cross the limits with their bad treatments.
It was astonishing for me to receive bad treatment from people around me that I tried to please, also I wondered how some people treat others this bad with my fears to treat me the same way, and blaming people was always my answer for my social success.
One vague question keep popping my head, which is "WHY?!".
It was hard for me to find some help talking about "how to treat people", it was more like "how to treat - the name of the person - ", because every person has different way of treatment, and I felt it was complicated enough to find something that heal my questioning.
Many things I stumbled upon were to categorize people upon what they say or their gesture or posture, this kind of self-help information was so hard to apply on real life, and instantaneous reply to real life situation was just impossible, it was like, "just give me one minute to revise which kind of personality you are and I'll be right back with the right response", obviously, this wasn't the solution.
I started doing my personalized homework, simply, to make an inventory of my day at the end of the day and why I respond this way when my peer treated me that way, and from here my life journey of tracking defects for social success started. (See also How to Be Successful in Life)
It was more my personalized perspective for my personal defects rather than analyzing my peer personality to find which suitable kind of treatment for him or her.
I realized that my reactions to my peer actions that are sourced from my personal defects, are not the right treatment for people around me.
Personal defects are the bad traits of the person's personality that he or she needs not to act or react upon it, like:-
Since personal defects is a broad subject that can't be finished in one post, the next post will continue talking about personal defects and how to track and avoid them, keep tuned wishing you ultimate social success.
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